Dear Adey,
I honestly don't know what i wanna be in the future. I see your post about dreams and aspirations and i wonder if something is wrong somewhere. Right now i am happily married with 3 kids. i have a decent job and my husband has his own business. I take care of my family and that is what i live for. it makes me happy and i am content but recently your posts has got me thinking maybe i am meant to be doing more. i honestly do not know what that more should be.
thanks
Ope.
Hello Ope
Thank you so much for your email. You are one of the people i had in mind when i started this platform. My platform's overall goal is to get you thinking and finally get you doing. I am so happy that you are finally thinking.
Whenever i write about dreams and aspirations, i am simply trying to get you to focus on your desires and ambitions. i honestly think that at one point in time in your life even as a little princess, you must have had desires and ambitions. I also understand that your desires may have changed from time to time based on realities and situations however every individual on earth has a purpose he or she is created to fulfill and until you fulfill that purpose there would always be a void in you. My posts are only making that void more obvious.
Being married with 3 kids is no joke and it can occupy all your time if you allow it but there is so much more untapped potential left even after taking care of your family. You have a decent job that you are content with and that is fine, however that is not all there is to Ope. You were not just created to grow up, get married, have a decent job, have kids, take care of your family, watch them grow and finally die at a good old age. No. You were created for that and much more. You were created to be a blessing to your generation and an answer to someones prayers. Someone somewhere needs your talents and gifts. Just imagine what would happen if everyone in the world just concentrated on themselves and didn't think outside the box. Now let me bring it closer, Imagine if the owner of your company was just content and didn't start a company, you probably won't have a job today. Not everyone will be entrepreneurs(pls don't get me wrong).
Fulfilling your purpose don't mean you have to be an entrepreneur but i bet that when you find what ticks you, you would wish you had started years ago. (its that much fun and it makes you happy and fulfilled)
Why don't you start with you figuring out what you like or what you are passionate about? It could be anything and it might take you a while to figure out but a little effort a day is all that i required. I will give you an example, a few years ago, i figured out that i love to speak. second i notice that i just don't love to speak, i love to inspire while speaking. I like to get people into action. Overtime i found out that I am most fulfilled when an individual is living their dreams and i know that i helped make that happen. Now you see why i am happy receiving an email from you?
Yours could be anything. You just have to think hard. Take it one day at a time. I don't know you but i can bet that your purpose might be connected to taking care of things/ people. It could be helping young kids or older group of people. i don't know for sure but i am drawing my conclusion from your statement where you wrote, i like taking care of my family and that is what i live for. i know you are destined for something great and only you can make it happen for you.
Think outside the BOX ope and you will find out what you would like to do in the nearest future.
All the best and please write me again sooner than later.
I hope my 2 cents helped out on your journey to discovering a better you
Regards
Adey
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