I am a Christian and have been one for over 20 years but I constantly find myself doing the same old things I use to do. How can I live a better life?
Kind regards
Nelson
Dear Nelson
If I tell you that my life was perfect, I would be the biggest liar. I sometimes do find myself in your situation however I find the strength to quickly get up and get back right on track. Thankfully we serve a God who forgives even before we ask him. All he desires is a repentant heart.
However I have done a few things to help me stay on track.
I think of God regularly. The more you think of him either through praise and worship, reading your bible or discussing about him with friends, the more you would be more conscious about your way of life and the things that you do.
- Also keep the right friends around you
- Make an effort to read your bible on a regularly basis. If possible set an alarm to remind you.
- Watch gospel channels and listen to gospel songs
- Attend a bible believing church
- Join a group in your church
- And most importantly pray to God for help. He is always there to help

Hmm, have you every considered trying to live your life and empowering YOURSELF instead of turning towards the supernatural? Guilt is really a heavy burden to carry and is a weight on one's shoulders that one must try and put down.
ReplyDeleteHave you ever considered the fact that on this planet, that there are millions who are non Christian, who live their lives WITHOUT the bible, WITHOUT going to church, WITHOUT praying to your god and WITHOUT watching any sort of gospel or church programs, and STILL live good lives and are STILL good and productive human beings, ever considered that fact? It might help you get rid of all that guilt you are carrying around with you.
Take some time and examine your life, examine how you treat yourself and how you treat those around you. Are you considerate and kind, especially to those in need? Are you law abiding? Do you really cherish your life? If your answer is yes to all of these questions, then you are a good person and doing a great job with the life you have.
So all in all, let go of your guilt, let go of your fear of judgement from the supernatural and just keep on living your life as good as you possibly can.