I have been single for the past two years and i am ready to start dating again but a part of me is still holding on to the pain i felt from over 2 years ago and i am not sure if i can trust anyone again. what do you advice i do?
Thank you
Kelly
Hello Kelly
I am so glad that you are thinking about dating. Congratulations
Honestly who hasn't been heart broken? Almost everyone has been there. At least i have been there. I was heart broken but i picked up the pieces back together, mended it and came out stronger, I cant imagine what you went through and i am not trying to down play it in anyway but why are you holding on to the pain? The pain is not going to bring your partner back into your life and neither is it going to make you feel any better, so please drop it right now.
You ex partner cannot still be in control anymore. He or she has had their chance and lost it. Do not keep giving them the right to indirectly control your happiness.
You are single and free. Mingle and make new connections. You don't have to trust blindly but allow yourself to fall in love again. Love is a beautiful thing and you deserve to have the beautiful things in life including the right partner who will love, care and respect you as a person.
You are in control of your life and everything that happens in it. You have the right to choose anything you desire so i implore you to choose love, happiness, joy, peace and any other good thing you desire for yourself.
Treat everyone based on who they are and not based on the behavior of an ex who hurt you over two years ago.
Give the new people who come into your life a chance to prove themselves.
We all fall to rise. we make mistakes, we live, we learn. Most of us have been hurt but we are alive and grateful..
We are humans and we are not perfect, so do not expect anyone to be perfect. Even the best partner will come into your life with imperfections and you will also appear with your imperfection, but true love overlooks.
May you find true love
Loads of Love
Adey
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